“Love Conquers All”

This saying is dressed up, down, and twisted around in various ways in traditional folk wisdom and in popular self-help material. Two very popular rules are the Golden Rule, and the more current Platinum Rule:

The Golden Rule: “Treat others as you would like to be treated”

The Platinum Rule: “Treat others as they would like to be treated.”

There is also  what I call The Acceptance Rule:

“Accept others as they are” (not as you are, or how you want them to be).  This rule is much more difficult than it appears.

The tarot addresses this very directly in the Strength card.  This card can become more fascinating as you delve into its details.

“Strength”

Card Number VIII or Card Number XI, depending on the deck.

A beautiful woman with flowers in her hair is petting a lion, almost hugging it. A lemniscate or infinity symbol floats above the woman’s head, signifying balance and/or eternity. The lion seems to relish the experience. He is in a position of submission with his tail between his legs.

If we could be with him, we might hear him purring or making happy little noises. The woman has tamed the wild beast with love and acceptance.

Please notice that the woman is wearing a white dress (purity, innocence)  trimmed with red flowers.  They stand in a lush green area, with beautiful blue mountains in the distance, under a bright yellow sky.  Lots of possibilities in the background and the future under a sunny, happy sky.

Using love and acceptance requires immense strength:  the strength to keep your mouth shut, the strength to stop thinking about yourself, the strength to immerse yourself in someone else’s frame of reference.  Just keeping the mouth shut can require a huge amount of strength and self-discipline.

When you pull this card, the message might be:

Tame the beast within you in order to tame the beast near you. Your kindness and love will conquer many situations.  It can open new horizons and relationships for you.